When I was pregnant with Toddler D, I made a list of things not to tell a pregnant woman. Number one was, "Are you sure you're not having twins?!" I have also created a list of things not to tell a depressed person. My new list is things not to tell a woman heading into her 40's. It's only got one thing on it so far is:
1. Ha! That's nothing. It's going to get a lot worse.